Monday, September 23, 2013

Bharathanatyam....!! Why Not Me...?

Yesterday I attended a function called "Aranggetram". Its actually a classical form of graduation function for the students who had completed their basic lessons in music or dance such as bharathanatyam, veenai, tabla, sanggeetham and so on. The student who performed her "aranggetram" was Ms Kamalam Soma Sundram, and I totally have not known her or met her before. Then ...why I went...? Barathi Akka got the invitation. It's her colleagues daughter's function. Since she invited me to go along with her, I smiled till my teeth shines and jumped in happy. The only reason I followed her because the function held at Shanthanand Hall, in TEMPLE of FINE ARTS, Brickfields. 

For me stepping into the Temple of Fine Arts building itself can be considered that I'm gifted. It has no other difference than the house of deities. I had never been there before but I knew about it for a very long time...hmm since 1996. It's all because......Once upon a time, I had a big interest in learning Bharathanatyam...the most beautiful Indian classical dance!!! Thaka thakida thom...tharikida thom..:)

As a little girl I adore the dance just because of its costume. It looks awesome that it has the biggest "kosuvam" portion. Something like Chinese fan in the middle of the costume. So when you dance you look gorgeous like peacock.

pic courtesy from google

When I was around 8 or 9 years old, I was too flexible in doing some poses such as bend backward and make my foot touch my head, make my both hands tied and do one circle from front to backward and vice versa. Wow..amazing rite...! Yes, I really can do this kind of stunts without knowing its the hardest Yoga poses. And my dad and mom were so proud of it and used talk big of me among their friends and relatives and they to asked my parents to enroll me in Bharatham classes. 

And one fine Sunday, my dad picked me and drove to my primary school. He knew that there were some bharatham classes being conducted on Sundays. So he planned to enroll me there. I was wearing one punjabi suit, wait I still do remember the suit's colour. It was white and red. After the meeting and greeting sessions with teacher, I was taught to dance "kolattam". Kolattam is a traditional Tamizh dance using 2 sticks. Like picture below.

 Picture courtesy from GOOGLE

I enjoyed it though, because it is very new for me. And since I am fond of dance...I easily would catch up any type of steps. When I get back home, I asked my grandma to make 2 sticks for me and she did it too using the guava tree branch. She said the sound will come louder when we beat. I was so happy and proudly brought it to the next class.

The disaster happened that day. My teacher had an idea and done some grouping among the girls into 3 groups. They were all the long hair girls in one group, the shoulder length hair in one group and the shortest hair were in one group. I was at the third one. My parents used to cut my hair shorter coz when my hair grows longer it sweats a lot, and then I'll get cold easily  :(  So due to that I had to keep my hair short when I was small.

Ok let's go back to the story. Do you know why the grouping is done...? Its for a dance motive too. There will be a function is going to held in the school for Merdeka Day. So teacher planned to have dances for 3 communities in Malaysia. The long hair girls will represent Indians by dancing "kolaattam". The shoulder length hair girls will be dancing Chinese dance, wearing Sam Fu and 2 small buns....and the most short hair girls will be dancing Malay dance using tempurung...u know what is tempurung...? Kottangkuchi..! I was so sad and break into tears. I was about to quit. But the teacher was so strict and fierce. So I console myself and danced.

Look at my sad face holding the tempurung....I am the most nearest and facing to the cam...
"thatti paarthen kottangkuchi...:("

Actually there is no bharatham classes being conducted in our school. It was a misunderstanding. There were dance practices going on for school functions. So after that incident I quit from the dance class and joined the school band. That went well for 2 years. Then my life gets too busy with studies in secondary school...colleges...university...and I have totally forgotten about learning bharatham. A couple of years back watched Sir Ramli Ibrahim's Odissi show at KLPAC. Planned to enroll in his classes but I think its toooooo late now...:) Well that is how the journey of learning bharatham ended in me...!!    

   

Saturday, August 10, 2013

Who Is This With You...?

I have seen this thing happened to others...many times..! And sometimes happened to me as well...and it is very embarrassing. Some just love to act smart...but at the end they make fool of themselves. Okay here is the story. If you don't ever have any idea about the relationship in between two, do not....let me tell you again DO NOT assume and simply ask questions such like below. 

Assumption No.1
Hey, your girlfriend ah / boyfriend ah...? (un sarakka ah / boy ah...?)--- towards a siblings who are super hot and cute like Hensel and Gretel....!

Hansel and Gretel..:)

Assumption No.2
Your big sister ah / younger brother ah...? (ungge akka-va / thambi-ya...?) --- towards a couple when the wife looks bigger than her husband...like Cinta Kolesterol couple....!

Cinta Kolesterol pair...:)

Assumption No.3
Your wife ah...? (ungge pombalaiya ah...?) --- to a young looking dads whom walking with his pampered 20+ aged daughter around his hand...who look like Abiyum Naanum father daughter...!

Abiyum Nanum...father and daughter..!

Assumption No.4
Your father ah...? (ungge appa va...?) --- towards a lady who looks younger than her husband...like this famous bollwood couple below...!

Young forever Sri Devi and great man Boney Kapoor..!

And Super Smart Assumption No.5 (THE WORST actually)
(*i think photos are not necessary for this one coz you can see many in Malaysia*)

Talking back or gossiping about relationship of an elderly, wealthy and not-so-good-looking Indian man holding hand of a young, gorgeous and mixed-blood looking teenage girl and assuming them as "sugar-daddy brings call-girl to shopping mall".......But if you really look at the behind of these two....there might be a elderly Chinese lady will be walking with a handsome, mixed-look young man. And then, you will be realizing that they were father and daughter with mother and son....:) And its literally a family....!! 

So throw out your stupidity with those annoying questions. The best way is just to ask them "Who is this with you?" despite assuming wrong relationship and embarrassing the other parties...:) Isn't it so simple....! Being simple sometimes will makes you think wiser.. :) 


Friday, February 1, 2013

The Impossible


I watched "The Impossible" movie yesterday. It's a story about hope, believe and never ever give up. I love this type of movies. It is something like Frozen, Sanctum and Life of Pie. Of course, very touching and I cried for many scenes. Scenes where the mom who got cuts and scratches at her breast and at thigh (till the muscle come out and bleeding) will be dragged by village people and help her wear clothes.



The vomiting "things" at the hospital, phone sharing to call family members, Lucas' (the elder boy) answer when asked to identify his mom's jewellery (he won't say yes coz think that they will inform that his mom was dead, and if he said no, he might don't know what has happened to her). And the most touching part till my nose gets so hot and I can't hold my tears was the scene, where the both younger brothers run towards his elder bro..screaming Lucas..! Lucas..! Lucas..! Makes me wanted to scream too.."LUCAS...turn back..your brother are there...!!" :(((( Memang sedih giler ah part ni..! I closed my mouth and cried for this scene. 

 

Not only me ok...:) I heard many weeps in the cine hall. The real Tsunami fear was at the last part where they show how the mom got strucked by the giant waves! Since its a based on a true story they will put the actual family photo who survived from this disaster when the credits rolled. The movie ends but many stayed back in their seats in silent and wiping their tears. I am writing about this movie, today evening because it gave big impact towards me. Early morning when I wake up the first image captured on mind was the mom's wound on her body. This movie teaches about how precious a life is, the meaning of family, love, reunion, hope, pain and the fear of being "alone". Should not be missed..:)